Nov. 16

Nov 16. One of my old friends, Jacob, just got back from his mission in the Philippines. He came to Utah today to visit family, and asked if he could see me as well. I really wanted to see him, but I also wanted to spend all of my free time with my boyfriend Nathaniel, so my initial plan was to bring Nathaniel with me to see Jacob. I spoke to my mom about it, and she said it would probably be awkward and uncomfortable for Jacob to be around me if I’m holding hands or cuddling up with Nathaniel. After all, he just wants to see me and be able to talk to just me.

            I really wanted to keep spending time with Nathaniel but I knew that it would be better to see Jacob on my own. That is exactly what I did. I was respecting Jacob and his wishes by allowing us to spend time with just each other so he could catch up with an old friend after being shell-shocked back into America. I know it was comforting to him.